What is dating with privileges
I had been giving myself not just physically, but emotionally to men for years.It took a desperate man to hold up the mirror to a formerly desperate woman, but that is where my freedom began…When we got on the phone, he asked me a question that left me puzzled.He’s a single guy that has been dating but is thinking about getting serious and committing.After my thousandth time having a handsome guy friend take me out, kiss me, woo me, but then fail to commit to me, I finally started to believe in this thing called fating. One fateful night, as my fake- boyfriend rubbed my back, I felt the Lord speak to me and say, “This is you! ” Shocked out of my sultry massage, I began to think about the patterns in my life.My final breaking point came when a close male friend of mine started to show interest in me. If I needed a cup of coffee, a dinner, or even a massage, he was my man. Surely all those guys in the past had liked me, and not just wanted to use me.I was like a starving girl, desperate for love, who’d settled for fast food hamburgers, instead of leaving room for a steak.The fake boyfriends in my life were taking the place of the man who would actually ask me out on a real date, not just use me until he found something better… I did not believe He would do what He said He would do, and bring me a husband.
Read More My trip to Ecuador, meeting Alexandra and her family for the first time was incredible. We had been corresponding for the last couple of months and during that time developed a very close and loving relationship.
So let’s stop the fake dating (because we deserve better) and let’s go after what’s real.
A good friend of mine shot me a message the other day asking to talk.
I hadn’t gone too far over the line physically, so I had to be good, right?
I sat in denial for a few moments, but then slowly began to realize the truth.
What started out as flattery turned into empty words.